insert into user_contact (`friend_id`,`remark_name`,`status`,`owner`) values (#{friendId},#{remarkName},#{status},#{owner}) insert into user_contact (`friend_id`,`remark_name`,`status`,`owner`) values (#{item.friendId},#{item.remarkName},#{item.status},#{item.owner}) update user_contact set update_time=now(),`status`=#{status} where friend_id=#{userId} update user_contact set update_time=now(),`status`=#{status} where `owner`=#{owner} and friend_id=#{userId} update user_contact set update_time=now(),`remark_name`=#{remarkName} where owner=#{owner} and friend_id=#{friendId}